Oh, let me regale you with my findings on how I've become quite an expert at spotting the "givers" and the "takers." In the grand tapestry of my life, I've encountered those splendid souls who are all about giving, gratitude, and cherishing, as well as those pesky individuals who simply take without a care for the future. Those are the real "takers," you see them way later after your first connection.They've been part and parcel of my existence for far too long, but I've finally cracked the code and now understand what I want to give them: unsolicited advice! As for those who are willing to reciprocate, my communication with them shall follow the principle of harmony of "give and take." After all, it's in my own best interest to support those who give. If it tickles my fancy to see someone succeed, then as a giver, I can benefit from it. I can fulfill my own interests by harnessing the life force of others. It's a delightful circle, isn't it?
Now, amidst this intriguing whirlpool, I find myself entangled in feelings of disappointment and offense. But these reactions belong to my past, the echos of my childhood self. I'm making room for my grown-up position, which I like to call "How can you best take care of me while pursuing your goals?" It's time to observe keenly what threatens to strip away the essence of my individuality—a signal for alarm and agitation.
If we were to distill the solution into a mere two words: weigh the emotional scales. If the outcome doesn`t outweigh the past, well, that's a negative solution. It's a triumph of that perpetually giving part that hasn't accustomed to, nor wants, or can think for itself.It has lived for centuries in the fear that without giving, its life would crumble. That's ancestral servitude, I tell you. And, fear not! Such notions have long ceased to exist in my life. But their mightiest strategy endures. Ah, such is life! We carry not only our own strategies but also those of our lineage. It's as if we were having a business coaching session, and yet metaphysics takes flight.
To successful reflections, my dears!